Is it hard to tell the truth?
I know it is remorseful to reject someone who pursues, but in my own perspective it is so much better for a woman to be totally honest than just letting his feelings wilt. Time and effort is wasted from conversations without direction and plans without realization. While the woman clearly knows that there is no outcome to his efforts, the man is unaware, continues to work hard for an ending leading nowhere.
It’s so unfair.
I have been through a number of people like this, and that just makes me more disappointed than hopeful.
© jpethoughts, 2022